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 Below are some questions that I'm asked... well...
frequently!
If you don't see the question that you want to
ask, please feel free to send me an
email! Keep in mind that I do not answer explicit questions, nor
will I quote rates (please see my Rates
and Services page for more information!).
Otherwise, I am more than happy to answer any
question I can! Please scroll down for all of my most common
questions, or click on the question that interests you most.
Are the photos
on the site your actual pictures?
What do you charge?
I'm new to all of this,
and I've never done this before, so I don't have any references.
Will you see me? Also, what can I expect? Do you have suggestions?
How can I contact
you?
Can I meet
you for coffee or dinner, before I make an appointment?
How old
are you? What are your measurements?
References:
After we've met, can I use your name as a reference for other
providers?
I'm not used to
someone with piercings. How many do you have, and can you remove
them?
Can you tell me
about your tattoos?
What do you
look for in a client?
What are your
pet peeves?
 
Why haven't
you answered my email/returned my call?
Do you see men of color (black, Asian, etc.)?
I'm not really a "kinky" person. I see you offer BDSM sessions. Are
you really into that?
Can you wear something special for our time together?
I would like to help you and post a review, but I'm worried about my privacy. How can I
discreetly write a review?
I would like to bring you a gift. What sorts of things do you like?
What sorts of drinks/refreshments do you have/can I bring?
Do you smoke/do drugs/"party"?
Do you offer UTF, DATY, CIM, FS, etc. etc. etc.?
What is Tantra and
Sacred Sex?
What kind of education do you have?
Do you see disabled clients?
Do you like what you do?
Are the photos on the site your actual
pictures?
Yes, all of my photos are real... although many tell me I look better in person (I don't think I
photograph well!). I try to keep both professional and candid photos on my
site, as well as some pictures from the past couple years. I want
you to explore my galleries, and really get a feel for who I am. I
am a mature lady, and super-voluptuous as well... there is much to be said
for an experienced, soft, real woman!
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What do you charge?
My rates vary, depending on the type of experience
that you're looking for. I specialize in extended, multi-hour
encounters, and have set my rates to support this. I do offer
hour-long experiences, however, and also specialty sessions like
dinner dates, Tantra and Sacred Sexuality encounters, even trips to
baseball games!
My rates are all-inclusive - no upselling,
and tipping (while appreciated) is never required.
I invite all clients interested in arranging an
appointment to read my Rates and
Services page, where you will find not only details about hourly
rates, but descriptions of adventures you may not have thought of --
or indeed, even imagined!
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I'm
new to all of this, and I've never done this before, so I
don't have any references. Will you see me? Also, what can I
expect? Do you have suggestions?
I love to see special friends who are new to this
type of experience, and I am honored that you are considering seeing me. I
make a special effort to ensure that your first experience is not
only positive, but fantastic!
I understand that, being new, you do
not have references from other providers. I am happy to see you.
However, I will need to get to know you a bit better, by asking some
questions, and getting a feel for who you are. If you are able to
provide a land line phone number, either home or work, or a
professional website, so much the better... but if not, we can try
to make something work. Be prepared to exchange several emails with
me. It is critical that I verify my clients, for my legal and
physical safety. I do appreciate your understanding.
Also, I highly suggest that clients new to this
type of experience do a bit of homework... this means not only
learning about me, but also reading reviews, and perhaps exploring
the information featured in the links below, which offer answers,
ideas, and etiquette. I assure you that taking your time, and doing
some research, is not only safer for you, but will pay off in a
truly wonderful way!
You might also want to read some
blogs by other clients, or hobbyists as they are sometimes called,
which you may find educational and enlightening... try these links!
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How can I contact you?
I prefer initial contact via email.
You can find my email link on my "Contact
Me" page. I understand some people really enjoy phone calls, and
just like hearing a voice before we meet. Once we've corresponded a
bit via email, and I've had a chance to get to know you, I'm happy
to arrange for us to speak on the phone. Friends who I've seen in
the past are welcome to call me anytime.
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Can I meet you for coffee or dinner,
before I make an appointment?
I can certainly understand why you might want to
meet with me, before you make an appointment. The idea of getting
together ahead of time, making sure that you really like someone,
and lessening nervousness, is perfectly understandable.
But I charge for my time, not for services
rendered (contrary to what you might believe). I am an incredibly
busy person, and I like to devote my precious spare time to my
family. It isn't that I don't like and enjoy the people I meet --
it's simply that my time is very valuable to me. In your work, I am
quite sure that you have customers, clients, or an employer that you
like and respect, but you would never consider doing work for them
without charging.
However, I know that such meetings are often
really important, for helping my friends feel comfortable --
especially those new to this type of experience. So as a kind of
compromise, I offer a special, lower "dinner only" rate, which
you can find on my
Rates and Services page. I do
appreciate your understanding and appreciation of my time, and I
look forward to sharing a meal with you!
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How old are you? What are your
measurements?
I am 42 years old; I'll be celebrating my 43rd
birthday in November! (Yes, I'm a Scorpio... and all
the rumors you've heard are true!) I like to be up front and honest
with my clients. It's not only good for you, but for me as well. It
would be silly for me to tell you I'm 32, only to disappoint you. I
don't choose to chase youth, worrying over every wrinkle,
desperately trying to compete with younger women. I enjoy being a
smart, experienced, mature woman -- and I desire clients who can
appreciate that.
The same is true for my body. I have a 42C chest,
bordering on a D (every bra is different). As for the rest of my
measurements, to be completely honest, I have no idea. I don't think
I even own a tape measure. On advertising sites where such
information is required, I usually guess at a 34 waist, and
46 hips. I am a very voluptuous, curvy woman.
I have a very lush figure, at the low end of the
BBW scale. My current photos
are an accurate representation of my figure. There's a nice one that
shows my full body at the bottom of my "About
Me" page, as well as several in my
"Spring 2009" photo gallery. If age and weight are big issues for you, there are
many providers who are younger, thinner, and less expensive than I.
But if you desire making a deeper, personal connection with an
intelligent, interesting, mature woman... and one with a beautiful,
soft, sexy Rubenesque body, then I'm delighted to show you just how
sensual I can be!
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References: After we've met, can I use
your name as a reference for other providers?
I am always happy to provide references for my
friends. However, if I have not seen you in a year or more, I will
probably not be able to help with a reference. People can change
over time, and most providers prefer a recent reference. I would
hope that there are other providers you've seen more recently who
could help you, though of course you are welcome to come see me
again, and start another year!
When seeking a reference, it will help expedite
the process if you could provide the following information to the
lady you wish to see:
- Your name - first and last
- My name and website address
- Your phone number and especially the
email address you used to contact me
- When we met -- exact date is helpful, but
even the month is great
- A few details about our time together that
only I would know -- not information anyone could find on my
website, but something specific to our time together.
I am not a jealous provider (I've always thought
that was so strange!), and I do not mind at all helping my friends
meet my other friends! I am also happy to give you recommendations
to other ladies I think you might like to meet.
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I'm not used to someone with piercings.
How many do you have, and can you remove them?
I have three piercings, one in my eyebrow (small), one in my nose (very
small and delicate), and a third in a very private place. I understand that,
especially in cases where we are going out together in public, you might
prefer that I remove my facial piercings. I am able to remove the small stud
in my nose with no difficulty. The eyebrow piercing is another matter,
though with my hair, it's
hardly noticeable.
However, if you are extremely determined to
have my piercings removed, it is possible. In order to remove the
eyebrow piercing, and/or the private piercing, I must go to a
professional piercer, pay to have it removed, and then return after
our session and pay to have it replaced. Due to the cost of the
piercer's time, plus my own, there is an additional $300 charge to
have my piercings removed. I am more than happy to make such
arrangements, on your request.
Sadly, we
do judge based on personal appearance in our society, and while I wish this
weren't so, I understand the need to be able to "fit in" in any environment.
I have found, however, that piercings such as mine are so prevalent
in our society these days, that no one really notices them, or gives
them a thought. But I can certainly understand if you would prefer
to have them removed. Simply let me know your desires!
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Can you tell me about your tattoos?
I have four tattoos, a small one on my back,
two large ones on either shoulder, and another small tattoo at the
nape of my neck, which is almost always hidden by my hair. I designed my tattoos so that
even a short-sleeve shirt will cover them. I realize that, sadly, we
judge people on appearance in our culture, and make assumptions
about the kind of person they are based on what they look like. I
think this is just tragic. Yet I also am very pragmatic. I love my
tattoos, but I also love the fact that, if I wanted to, I could put
on a suit, braid my hair, and get a job at a bank (not that I'd
want to! I love my job!). It's important to be able to "fit in."
Robert Heinlein called it "fooling Mrs. Grundy."
I got the tattoos because I like body art, and I think they're beautiful.
It's my way of permanently adorning myself. Sadly, I've had gentleman assume
I'm a "biker chick" or some such. I'm actually an educated,
elegant, and yet down-to-earth lady. Kind of a "black velvet and blue jeans"
sort of person.
When we are out in public together, and especially
when I am doing outcalls to hotels, I wear clothing that covers my tattoos.
I believe in being discreet. Please feel free to ask me what my tattoos
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What do you look for in a client?
I ask for your name, a reference from another
provider you've seen, and a contact phone number. I do understand
that gentlemen new to the hobby will not have a reference, but we
can discuss this via email (see the "newbie" section
above).
On a personal level, I believe in the Golden Rule. We all want to spend our
time with someone who is polite, friendly, and respectful; someone who is
clean, well-groomed, and looking their best; a person who is honest and
kind.
I prefer gentlemen over 30 years old; however, I am willing to see younger
gentlemen who approach me with dignity. I rather enjoy younger men who can
appreciate the experience of a mature woman! But I also enjoy older
men, too... I suppose you could say that I simply enjoy men.
I seek men who appreciate that a
strong mental connection can strengthen and enhance the sensual, men who
enjoy conversation from the intellectual to the low-brow, men who can shift
from the sublime to the purely physical.
Your excitement excites me!
If you really, really want to know what I like...
click here for a list of Things That Turn
Beverly On!
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What are your pet peeves?
I'm actually very easy to get along with. I think
the majority of the things that bother me, in the course of my work,
would probably bother most people. In other words, it's like my
mother always said: Do unto others, as you would have them do unto
you (and you know I just love it when you do unto me!). But
everyone has a few pet peeves, so here are a few of mine:
- Showing up early for your appointment. I am
never ready early, and am usually rushing around trying to make
sure everything is perfect for when you arrive. Even if I do
have a few extra minutes, it's nice just to sit down and relax
and prepare myself mentally for our encounter... you know, just
let go of the stress of the day, and be relaxed and happy when I
open the door!
- Contacting me without reading my
Rates and Services page, or
taking the time to explore my site a bit -- and thus, asking
questions that are inappropriate, or are answered here on the
site. Of course, the ironic part is that those guilty of this
particular sin won't ever read these words. Funny!
-
 Poor
hygiene. I think this is the number one pet peeve of escorts all
over the world. I take a serious effort with my appearance and
hygiene, and I really appreciate it when you do, too. Part of
this (how to put this delicately?) means scrubbing, with lots of
soap, all areas within 14 3/4 inches of any part of your body
that you think I might come in contact with. This includes parts
that you think I won't come in contact with. For example,
the armpits are within 14 3/4 inches from your nipples. And all
sorts of parts are within 14 1/2 inches from your belly button.
Or your lower back. You get the idea. I know it seems silly to
have to explain all of this. Feel free to ask me about my math.
And you are always welcome to shower at my incall -- I may even
join you!
- Inappropriate emails or phone calls, emails
which include photos of genitalia, or general arrogance. I may
be an escort, but that doesn't mean I shouldn't be treated with
the same respect and dignity that you would offer any other
lady. You would never send an email with extremely explicit
language to any other woman you've never met -- so why send one
to me? You would never send an email making demands, rather than
polite requests, to a stranger -- so please, don't send one to
me. Again, the sad part is, those folks who send such emails
will surely never read these words. I love irony.
I think that's pretty much it! As I said, I'm easy
to get along with. Treat me with respect, and you will receive the
same. Mom was right!
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Why haven't you answered my
email/returned my call?
I do receive, on average, anywhere from 20-50
emails daily. I do try to answer my mail as promptly as possible.
Clients seeking appointments will receive priority. I will respond
to you in some way as quickly as I can. Your patience is greatly appreciated,
and I assure you that patience will be amply rewarded!
For returning friends, I generally answer the phone between
2pm and
10pm. If I am unable to answer the phone, I make every reasonable effort to return all calls
within two hours. However, for a variety of reasons, I may be unable to do so. Please leave
times when I can safely and discreetly call you back.
Other reasons why I may not return a call or email:
1. You failed to leave your phone number, or spoke
so quickly that I was unable to understand it;
2. You didn't leave your name;
3. I don't return calls from people who are
obviously under the influence;
4. I don't return calls left after midnight (set up
late- night appointments ahead of time, please!);
5. You may have been rude, offensive, or used
explicit or inappropriate language;
6. You may have mentioned an exchange of money for
sexual favors.
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Do you see men of color (black, Asian, etc.)?
Absolutely! It saddens me how often I'm asked this
question. I think it's depressing that such prejudice still exists
in our society to even necessitate the question. I am happy to see
anyone at all, no matter their skin tone or national origin. All I
desire is that my friends be true gentlemen -- honest, respectful,
and courteous. The only race I understand is the human race!
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I'm not really a "kinky" person. I see you offer BDSM sessions. Are
you really into that?
My sexual tastes are, like every other aspect of
my life, quite eclectic. I love variety. I suppose one could say my
fantasies are like a huge sexual buffet -- and just as I enjoy
Chinese food one night, and Italian the next, I also enjoy sampling
from a diverse menu of sexual pleasures. Yes, I enjoy BDSM -- but I
also enjoy slow, romantic lovemaking, with candles and soft music,
sweet whispers and caresses. I am capable of intense passion, and
playful explorations into the realm of fantasy. And I honestly don't
believe there is anyone who is "normal" -- lights out sex,
missionary only. Everyone has a fantasy, a special pleasure, from
the mild to the wild. I enjoy it all!
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Can you wear something special for our time together?
I will do my best to accommodate specific requests
for attire.
I love costumes and dress-up, lacy or sheer chemises, vintage clothes, garters and stockings -- let me know what intrigues you!
When doing outcalls, discretion is a priority. I generally arrive in
"casual dressy" attire -- jeans and a nice blouse, or slacks and a blazer.
When visiting hotels, my tattoos are always discreetly covered. I will change into whatever you request once
I arrive at your location.
In the case of an incall, I will greet you in my
"casual dressy" attire, unless you have a specific request.
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I would like to help you and post a review, but I'm worried about my privacy. How can I
discreetly write a review?
I appreciate (and am very grateful) for your
honest review about our experience together.
You can post a review anonymously with any of the review sites
(I especially appreciate reviews on
The Erotic
Review, and Denver's
The Other
Board) by first
setting up an anonymous email account, through either Yahoo!, Hotmail, or gmail (Google). Use
that email address to register with the site of your choice -- then, just
post your review!
I understand that it takes time to write a review, especially anonymously,
and I thank you very much for your time and effort.
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I would like to bring you a gift. What sorts of things do you like?
Of course, you should never feel obligated to
bring me a gift. But I also appreciate that some people enjoy giving
gifts -- I love to give them, myself. It's fun, thinking of the
person while you shop! So, that said, here are some of my favorite
things:
- Send me a treat from my
Amazon Wish List -- and you're sure to make me smile! My
list includes books, lingerie, jewelry, you name it!
- Gift cards -- Starbucks, Any bookstore
(!), Brighton, Cacique (lingerie for the voluptuous woman!),
Torrid, Macy's, Target, Sephora, Tiffany (pretty please?),
Office Max, Saks Fifth Avenue, Bed Bath and Beyond, Neiman
Marcus, Circuit City.
- Candles -- vanilla scented, especially!
- Massage oils -- my favorite are the Kama
Sutra massage oils, especially Sweet Almond... wonderful
scent.
- Adult toys -- always! I especially love
Phallix glass dildos, the more colorful, the better!
- Jewelry -- what lady doesn't love jewelry? I
wear the silvery metals -- silver, white gold, platinum. I
especially like more romantic, classic styles.
- Champagne -- My favorite! While I certainly
enjoy a bottle of Kristal or Dom Perignon, my current favorite
is Veuve Clicquot. I would love to share a bottle with you!
- Chocolate -- again, what lady doesn't love
chocolate? I prefer milk chocolate to dark, but my weakness is
Godiva white chocolate strawberry truffles. Mmmmmmmm.
- Please, no stuffed animals. They are awfully
cute, but I have a dog with a stuffed-animal vendetta.
Unfortunately, when seeing me for an incall
appointment, I ask that you refrain from bringing flowers. It's
really a shame, and I just love them, but I'm afraid it will call
unwanted attention to my incall. I do appreciate your understanding.
However, if you would like to send me flowers via a delivery service,
please let me know! Sterling Silver roses are my favorite.
If you're thinking of a gift of an adult toy, why don't we shop
for it together? It's fun to pick out what you'd like... the anticipation is
delightful! And then, we'll go enjoy our new purchase in private!
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What sorts of drinks/refreshments do you have/can I bring?
I enjoy a bottle of champagne (my current favorite
is Veuve Clicquot), Martinelli's Sparkling Cider, or simply bottled water.
I also confess a deep affection for diet Mountain Dew -- hardly elegant,
I know. A light snack of
bread, cheese, and fruit is wonderful.
Let me know what you would like, and I'll be happy to provide your
favorite snack or beverage -- from coca-cola to vodka and tonic. My desire
is to pamper and spoil you -- so please, let me know what you would like before
our encounter!
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Do you smoke/do drugs/"party"?
I am embarrassed to say that I do smoke cigarettes
-- however, please understand that I am tremendously respectful of
non-smokers, and I do not smoke during our time together, and I do my best to make sure that both my breath and
my person smell fresh and clean. Besides, I have some interesting
uses for mints!
I am drug-free and do not "party," ever. Requests
for such things will go unanswered.
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Do you offer UTF, DATY, CIM, FS, etc. etc. etc.?
These acronyms indicate illegal behavior. It is a
mistake to think that using them somehow disguises the behavior you
are inquiring about. I assure you, the legal community is fully
capable of reading glossaries on hobby boards. If you seek to
understand more about me and the type of experience I offer, I ask
you to take some time and do your homework, read and learn. I ask
for a donation for my time and companionship ONLY. All of my
reviews are lovely stories for entertainment purposes only.
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What is Tantra and Sacred Sex?
Tantra and Sacred Sex refers to ancient practices
from several cultures, practices which not only enhance and improve
lovemaking skills (including extending orgasm), but also deepens the
connection between partners, and elevates the sexual experience into
the realm of the spiritual.
For more information on sacred sensual practices, please see my
Tantra and Sacred Sexuality page.
If you are interested in learning more about
prolonging sensuality and preventing premature ejaculation,
non-ejaculatory orgasms, and male multiple orgasm, without the more
esoteric, spiritual focus of sacred sexuality, I suggest you visit
my Sensual Teachings for Men page.
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What kind of education do you have?
My sensual education began over 20 years ago, and has been a lifelong
study/pursuit/passion. There's always more to learn and discover! I am a
Certified Tantra Educator, and a member of the Association for
Sexual Energy Professionals (ASEP). I write articles on the subject
of sexuality for various websites and magazines, and hope to start
teaching workshops for women and couples soon.
As for my
traditional education, I have bachelor's degree in journalism, and also studied literature
and history. I hope to go to graduate school one day, but realistically it's
going to have to wait a couple of years. But that's fine... I'm busy
learning so many things, in my own way. I am an avid reader, and I'm
constantly taking classes and workshops, exploring new territory. I
believe that a formal education is important, but life is an
education, too. Yet I do love going to school.
One of my biggest fantasies is to figure out a way to spend the rest of my
life in school, studying anything and everything -- law, psychology,
sociology, computer science, biology... learning everything I can... and
then taking that knowledge and applying it in the world.
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Do you see disabled clients?
This is actually an area of specialty for me, and
my disabled clients have provided me with a very unique, wonderful
new way of exploring sexuality. I have learned to appreciate
different ways of finding pleasure, and it has been fantastic. I am
happy to arrange an accessible incall, or I can come to you.
Whatever your "differentness," I probably have experienced something
similar before, and would love to see you. Please let me
know ahead of time if you have any special needs or desires.
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Do you like what you do?
No.... I LOVE what I do! I honestly believe that I
have a calling for this work. I find myself learning more every day,
understanding more, connecting with my special friends on a deeper
and deeper level.
I believe that what I do is healing, powerful, and
important. I am so blessed that I have the opportunity to make my
living by touching the lives of others, bringing them happiness. And
as I give pleasure, I receive it back a hundred times over.
Every
person on this planet is unique and wonderful; everyone has a story
to share, a life experience I can learn from -- and contribute to.
And in turn, I am touched. My life grows richer every day, because
of the people who reach out to me. I am so blessed that you let me
be a part of your life, even if just for a moment.
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If you have any questions I did not
answer here,
please don't hesitate
to email me at
beverlyfisher@comcast.net.
I very much look forward to hearing from you!
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